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Dads spoke up for co-parenting on 'Fatherless Day'

With Father's Day literally just around the corner, some dads aren't feeling the love. It isn't anything to do with how their children are behaving, whether they will hug them in public or how the child feels about their parenting skills. In fact, it isn't about how the child sees the role of a father; it is how the court system does.

The group of fathers feeling this way has coined themselves Illinois Fathers and they are making their voices heard across the state and the nation -- especially on June 10, their self-declared "Fatherless Day." The men that make up this group are fathers or grandfathers, but they do not have custody of their children or feel that the court system has hindered their relationship with their children. Their feelings are felt on a national level, even with a lot of dads New York.

Law Revision Commission: Overhaul alimony in New York, part 3

We promised in our June 7 post to discuss the O'Brien precedent that has been a blessing and a curse for family law practitioners in the state since 1985. The New York State Law Revision Commission is recommending that the precedent be set aside as legislators work to revamp the state's alimony laws.

In O'Brien v. O'Brien, the parties asked the state's highest court to determine if a professional degree could be considered marital property. The trial court said yes, the appellate division said no and, finally, the Court of Appeals said yes. The state's alimony award process changed immediately.

Law Revision Commission: Overhaul alimony in New York, part 2

We are continuing our discussion of the New York Law Revision Commission's recommendations for changes to the state's alimony, or spousal maintenance, laws. In 2010, the Legislature asked the commission to evaluate a number of new laws enacted that year; the laws were a first step at revising the state's approach to alimony. The commission took more time than the Legislature had anticipated, but lawmakers and family law attorneys are pleased with the results.

The commission's research showed that current laws pull the system in opposite directions: Temporary alimony laws are designed for consistent outcomes, while the laws for final alimony promote more individualized results. The commission added that the O'Brien precedent provided a whole new layer of complexity.

Law Revision Commission: Overhaul alimony in New York

New York is not the only state champing at the bit to overhaul its alimony laws. One major focus in other states has been the abolition of lifetime alimony. Here, the focus has been on developing a predictable, consistent and flexible legal framework for couples and courts to operate within. 

The Legislature passed a number of laws in 2010 to change the way the state handles alimony. Almost immediately, lawmakers passed another law, requiring the Law Revision Commission to evaluate the new approach. The commission's findings were to be presented in December 2011.

The Legislature received the report in May, almost 18 months after the target date.

Murder-suicide leads to heartbreaking custody battle, conclusion

When NFL linebacker Jovan Belcher shot his girlfriend and then took his own life, he left the couple's 3-month-old daughter without a legal guardian. Apparently neither parent had a will in place, and just six months later the baby is at the center of a custody dispute between the two families.

Belcher's mother, Cheryl Shepherd, was granted temporary custody within days of the couple's deaths. She petitioned the court soon thereafter to be granted permanent custody and to be conservator of Zoey's estate, the bulk of which was inherited from Belcher.

Murder-suicide leads to heartbreaking custody battle

The grandparents of an 8-month-old girl are heading to court in June to artgue over custody of the little girl. Her parents were a professional football player, 25, and his 22-year-old girlfriend. In December 2012, her father shot her mother to death, then took his own life, leaving her an orphan and in legal limbo.

According to news reports immediately following the tragedy, Jovan Belcher's mother, Cheryl Shepherd, was in the couple's home when her son murdered Kasandra Perkins, the mother of his baby daughter. The couple had argued over lifestyle and finances. Shepherd had moved from her home in New York to live with the couple just a couple of weeks earlier.

Plan ahead: Married or divorced, college isn't cheap, p. 3

We are still talking about how to handle 529 plan accounts in a divorce. So far, we have talked about freezing the account and the pros and cons of that approach. One of the cons is that one parent will have control of the account. In a particularly contentious divorce, that may not sit well with the other parent.

It is also possible to split the account. Couples should keep in mind that splitting an account requires a court order, but once the order is filed, the state of New York would have to abide by it.

Plan ahead: Married or divorced, college isn't cheap, p. 2

We have been talking about 529 plan accounts and divorce. The accounts are similar in some ways to individual retirement accounts, with education instead of retirement as the trigger. The account owner, generally a parent, deposits money over time in an investment account. The balance grows, and when the owner's child goes to college, the funds, exempt from federal taxes, are available to cover tuition and other expenses.

If the parents divorce before the child is old enough for college, they have to decide what to do with the 529 plan account. The account can continue to build, but the parents have a few options on how to handle it. In our last post, we talked about freezing the plan.

Plan ahead: Married or divorced, college isn't cheap

A personal finance radio show caught our attention recently. The guest was talking to average Americans about how to handle their college loans. One caller was close to tears as she explained that she was getting divorced, had overwhelming student loan debt (both federal and private loans) and, on top of everything else, had a fairly significant medical bill, too. 

The federal government has a number of programs that help people with student loan debt. The government also has a program that helps parents prepare for their children's college education, the 529 plan. With the 529 plan, parents can set money aside for their children's education. When the time comes to pay tuition and other college-related expenses, the funds are available and are not subject to federal income tax.

What happens to the plan funds, though, if the parents divorce? 

Court releases documents in NASCAR chief's 2008 divorce, p. 2

We are continuing our discussion from our last post regarding the divorce of NASCAR chief Brian France. The couple divorced in 2008, but the details have only recently come to light. The files were sealed, but, after years of arguing in court that the records were public, news organizations finally prevailed. Reporters are now combing through thousands of pages of court documents in an effort to learn more about privately held NASCAR, perhaps, than about the divorce.

Brian and Megan France had two small children when they split up. Megan retained custody, and Brian agreed to pay $10,000 per month in child support. Brian also agreed to pay alimony ($32,000 per month) for 10 years and to make three $3 million lump-sum payments over three years.

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